The Women Who Will Roar
Caitlin James
(she/her)
I wrote this poem at 2am after thinking about an interaction I had with a customer at my bar job. Women experience so many microaggressions every day. It frustrates me when we’re expected to grin and bear it, as if we haven’t been hurting for millennia. This poem was borne out of these frustrations.
Naarm, Wurundjeri Country
“What do you drink, wine?”
He laughs in my face when I tell him I drink whisky.
It’s a funny thing, to be belittled so often
by men who think you’re too dumb to notice
or too meek to say otherwise.
A lot of people don’t understand,
or choose to ignore,
the pain of existing in a world not made for you
and those intent on reminding you of that
every
day
through the anger in their words,
the look up and down your body,
the smirk on their face as they leave,
knowing they can get away with it because they’re a man.
There are those who tell you to ignore it,
or forget about it,
or that it doesn’t really exist.
They don’t see the long line of ancestors,
the women who came before.
The women who struggled,
the women who were silent,
the women who screamed
for a better world for us.
I keep going
so that their lives were not in vain.
The women, deemed witches, burnt at the stake.
The women who risked it all in back alley abortions because their
bodies were not recognised
as their own.
The women, mouths shut, who lived and died with the abuse.
I keep going
so that women in the future will not feel the same.
The women who will not have to grin and bear it.
The women who are no longer silenced.
The women who will roar, and roar, and roar.